It was leading up to being a sad and lonely Christmas. Being alone came with positive feels because it afforded me time to focus on my projects, but being alone at such a time when the overarching message was to be with friends and family, was depressing. It was like a...

I’m almost a week into my new place, new city, new state, ‘bout to be new number and car too...but this time of unpacking and making lists of still needed essentials has caused me to reflect (I’m always reflecting tbh).

I decided to relocate because I want an opportuni...

My cousin created this and posted it on her FB week before last. After, I watched Black Girls Rock, and finished watching it feeling like I’m not doing enough. It motivated me to want to do more, be more, reach higher. But I also caught myself before diving off the dee...

#QOTD: If you and bae have talked about marriage and a wedding, should you still wait for the 💍 before you start doing any planning. Planning in this scenario would be researching locations, colors, vendors, etc. Is it “Practical” to get an early start on planning, or...

(I realllly wanted to do a ‘Kiki, do you love me’ spin-off right here, but I think imma hold it.)

If I have to ask if you’re on board, then you’re obviously not on board. Ladies, stop asking questions that have answers written clearly on the wall.

Nowadays, guys are qui...

Nights like this I wish...lovedrops would fall.

Nights like this I wish he was here. I don’t think I know him yet. Based on my romantic history, it doesn’t seem like I’ve met him yet. But I pray he does exist and that he is coming soon.

Nights like this I wish I could c...

Needless to say, I write A LOT! I have stuff written in notebooks, typed in emails to myself, in the Notes app on my iPhone/iPad, everywhere. I was scrolling through my notes just now, looking for things I may have written to go into my next book, when I came across th...

Everything happens for a reason. Signs are in everything. But we believe that since something happens in a way that looks like it was “meant to be”, it should have a positive outcome...now, I am no longer sure.

For instance, a few months ago I was due to take a trip. Or...

Has anyone really asked you that?

Has anyone really cared WHY you don't trust easily, WITHOUT first trying to tell you why what you've gone through wasn't a big deal, or attempting to downplay the hurt you endured?

Have you asked yourself that?

Have you really thought abo...

And so can you...

While returning from a week in the Outer Banks, I caught a clip from the Steve Harvey show. To be clear, I am not a fan of listening to talking on the radio. I want to hear music, not someone talking. Nonetheless, I caught the title and decided to list...