Reflections
A few weeks ago my ex’s new gf reached out. I answered her questions and thought she’d take heed to my caution. She reached out the other...
Under The Mistletoe
It was leading up to being a sad and lonely Christmas. Being alone came with positive feels because it afforded me time to focus on my...
New everything, who dis?
I’m almost a week into my new place, new city, new state, ‘bout to be new number and car too...but this time of unpacking and making...


I rock, even when I feel I’m under said rock 🙄😐
My cousin created this and posted it on her FB week before last. After, I watched Black Girls Rock, and finished watching it feeling like...
Practical or Nonsense?
#QOTD: If you and bae have talked about marriage and a wedding, should you still wait for the 💍 before you start doing any planning....
You down for the ride? Or is this your stop?
(I realllly wanted to do a ‘Kiki, do you love me’ spin-off right here, but I think imma hold it.) If I have to ask if you’re on board,...

Nights like this
Nights like this I wish...lovedrops would fall. Nights like this I wish he was here. I don’t think I know him yet. Based on my romantic...
Dear Wil
Needless to say, I write A LOT! I have stuff written in notebooks, typed in emails to myself, in the Notes app on my iPhone/iPad,...
It’s “meant to be”...what tho?
Everything happens for a reason. Signs are in everything. But we believe that since something happens in a way that looks like it was...

Why do you have trust issues?
Has anyone really asked you that? Has anyone really cared WHY you don't trust easily, WITHOUT first trying to tell you why what you've...